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evvcpl4funnow 43 C
1  question
Any College Boys 4 Me - 7/6/2008

Hey... really need to find a college age boy to play with me and hubby. In Evansville and HORNY. Indiana that is...lol. Give us a shout back SOON!!!!

11 response(s), 8 votes
shortspurs 50 F
3  questions
Priotity v's Option - 7/6/2008

Why is it that some of my girlfriends & workmates (myself included) are making the guys in our lives a priority, yet the guys only seem to be making us an option?

The majority of us & the guys are in our 30's & 40's, so is it because us girls want LTR's but the guys have been:

a) badly hurt & ripped off by a previous relationship & are taking it out on us & not trusting us to ...

15 response(s), 21 votes
laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Oh Woe is Me! - 7/6/2008

What to do, oh what to do? Here's the deal.

I've been in contact with a couple now for about two months. There were a couple of meets planned and scuddled for one reason or the other on both ends. Mostly just a timing of schedules

So over the long weekend I was in touch with a second couple that we used to have an ongoing thing for about three years. That was five years ago. ...

16 response(s), 27 votes
rm_eligah50 64 M
3  questions
Romancing The Bedroom - 7/5/2008

How's Your Communication?



Praising Your Partner Make time to give them a much deserved thank you or good job! by Jennifer Good

Everyone needs a pat on the back every once in a while. You're partner is no exception. In fact, you may be doing more than you know. Knowing you have the complete support and belief from your partner can give a person the courage and ...


6 response(s), 7 votes
rm_eligah50 64 M
3  questions
COMMUNICATION - 7/5/2008

When a relationship goes sour, one of the first things to suffer is communication. If you can't communicate with each other, then there is no possible way to salvage the relationship. The thing to do is to prevent communication from ever being a problem. One of the most important aspects of this is to learn how to be a good listener. Listed below are a few guidelines to help you ...

8 response(s), 7 votes
rm_othrwhtmeat 38 M
7  questions
horns of a dilemma - 7/5/2008

I don't know how novel of a situation this is, but it can't be that common.

Last night (specifically the 4th, depending on when you read this) I was bored and decided to visit a strip club I hadn't been to since I don't know when. I figured it would be a big party night, but it was pretty dead for the early part of the evening, although it did pick up later. I got into some pretty good ...

11 response(s), 17 votes
rm_lostharmony1 39 M
2  questions
who really wants to meet - 7/5/2008

it is like every time i find someone that seems cool and have nice pics they kinda wanna back out at the last sec. i want to meet new ppl.

so how many posers are out there

16 response(s), 12 votes
would you - 7/5/2008

Would you tell the person you are having sex with that you have been tested for std's/aids.

27 response(s), 26 votes
No erection with lap dance - 7/5/2008

If a man gets lap dance by female stripper but does not get erection of his penis no matter how much times she rubs it, does that mean he is homosexual?

32 response(s), 37 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
What sort of email do you want to recieve?????? - 7/5/2008

I am a nice guy. I have read that people like to read nice polite emails. I have sent all kinds of messages. I have sent the polite kind, rude kind, and the kind saying exactly what was on my mind.

I have not recieved any sort of messages in response. So my question to everybody.





What sort of emails do you tend to respond to?

What sort of emails do you ...

15 response(s), 18 votes
No show - 7/5/2008

Why do girls say they love me and want to sex me then when I go to meet them for the sex they not show up?

19 response(s), 17 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
Nice guy or not?? - 7/5/2008

Ladies if you had your choice of an average looking nice guy or a hot bad boy for a LTR which would you choose?

13 response(s), 19 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
Ladies what is better........ - 7/5/2008

Ladies I have seen some wuestions on here asking about the female G-spot. I was wondering what hits your spot more often, a straight or curved up dick?

Which do you prefer?

7 response(s), 20 votes
vegasangel0125 41 C
10  questions
when is it.... - 7/5/2008

We are looking for more of long term friends with benefit relationships. We are planning to meet in hotels for the first couple of meeting. How many visits should we wait until we invite them into our home to play?

12 response(s), 11 votes
vegasangel0125 41 C
10  questions
Why do guys..... - 7/5/2008

We are on here as a couple and want to play as a couple, that is clear stated on our profile. So why do so many guys chat with us with the intention of trying to get me(female)to play alone with them?

12 response(s), 17 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
Best way?? - 7/5/2008

If you where to meet someone at the place they work and you are a customer regularly. I have spent some time when they where on the clock just hanging out and chatting/flirting what would be the best way to ask them on a date, dinner and a movie kind, without seeming like a wierd customer and without ruining the customer/employee relationship??

Any ideas or suggestions?????

3 response(s), 6 votes
fatfreak5 53 F
1  question
WHY BOTHER? - 7/5/2008

WHY DO SOME GUYS ON THIS SITE PURSUE WOMEN ALL THE WAY TO SETTING UP A MEETING, IF THEY HAVE NO INTENTION OF FOLLOWING THROUGH? WHAT'S THE POINT?

23 response(s), 32 votes
rm_just4fun2952 72 C
4  questions
flirts & hotlist - 7/5/2008

How many of you pay attention to the flirts and hotlist?

30 response(s), 30 votes
rm_just4fun2952 72 C
4  questions
On the day - 7/5/2008

So girls....when you know that you have a "meeting" coming up either that night or during the day....

How do you prepare? Are there certain things that you do to mentally get ready to have a great time...

I know that during the day I will listen to certain music, think about what will turn my partner on...etc..

what do you all do

16 response(s), 15 votes
rm_logger132 74 M
2  questions
Bi Panty Men - 7/5/2008

I was just curious how many men get turned on by men wearing lingerie. I know it really gets me hot to wear and see other men in lingerie. I love the way a hard cock looks in nylon panties, yum!!!

23 response(s), 27 votes
discrete1for2 51 M
1  question
Whats the best way ? - 7/5/2008

I'm new at the swinging. Actually haven done it yet. What do I need to do to make this a fun experience instead a nervous reaction?

20 response(s), 19 votes
jamalthurmond1 50 M
1  question
What do you do when confronted with a bait and switch? - 7/4/2008

Well i am not the kind of guy that likes to cause a scene but i damn sure wanted to. But nooooo i punked out and acted as though i didnt notice the "old shell game." I kick myself daily at my non response. Only thing is... what in the world would be the proper thing to do? She was in her place of work for heaven sakes (internal struggle going on here and my 'id' is winning the battle). Needless ...

12 response(s), 34 votes
What is to old - 7/4/2008

When an individual reaches the age of 65 years, do most people view the 65 year old as not being a viable sexual partner?

9 response(s), 21 votes
str8sexy69 48 F
2  questions
Is sex just sex for you, or is it more? - 7/4/2008

I was chatting with a guy friend the other day about, what else, sex! And I was explaining to him that while I really, really enjoy the physical act of sex and orgasm there are "peripheral" things about sex that I also enjoy just as much - i.e. cuddling, the physical closeness to another person, feeling desirable and attractive etc. And I can enjoy those ...

24 response(s), 36 votes
Ashley92577 46 F
3  questions
Menages in Nashville: What in the world is going on?? - 7/4/2008

I have had a few people tell me that Menages is now no more than a dance club. I have been looking all over and I can't find a word about what is going on. Something about how Metro is cracking down on the sex clubs here for promoting STD's.

Does anyone have any reliable info about what is happening here? I just want to get all the facts straight.

9 response(s), 21 votes
rm_dodger7645 48 F
56  questions
It's the 4th of July!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! - 7/4/2008

HAPPY AND SAFE FOURTH OF JULY TO EVERYONE! Let's not forget to thank our military today who are fighting for us just not today but everyday.



Be safe with whatever you blast off today.



Do tell, what is your most memorable Fourth of July?

14 response(s), 17 votes
rm_mjcfun 50 C
2  questions
Male multiple orgasm - 7/4/2008

There has to be a secret to this. The other day I experienced a true multiple orgasm. I cum significant amounts the first time and huge amount the second time which was about 3 seconds later.

The sexual feeling built up so much that when I cum I had a fairly intense orgasm but instead of dying off the tingling was still there. I thrust a few more times and the king of all orgasms ...

13 response(s), 23 votes
Happy Independence Day. - 7/4/2008

Happy Independence Day to all the advice Line users! Enjoy the holiday. Have fun and be safe.

12 response(s), 17 votes
wickedcat2006 49 F
292  questions
which one do you prefer? - 7/3/2008

this is for all the lesbians and bi sexuals and the 3some lovers. who do you prefer in bed? a butch or a fem lesbian?

5 response(s), 10 votes
jennifer89115 34 F
3  questions
Shes as good as gone - 7/3/2008

Saturday I went to a private club here which I won't name because I don't think they will let me on this site. There was a guy there who sang a song that he said he wrote that was really beautiful. It was like a country song and it was called Shes as good as gone. It was about a guy who knows his wife is going to leave him even though she does everything like she always has. She fixes his ...

11 response(s), 24 votes